Are you an Emotional Eater?
A weight problem often represents more than a matter of eating too much or exercising too little. Many overweight people find they use food as a tool to help them through anger, Boredom, insecurity, loneliness, exhaustion, stress, or frustration. Emotional eating is an understandable phenomenon. After all food is our original source of nurturing in life. In most cultures, it symbolizes comfort, love, and togetherness. An emotional connection to food is our legacy.
But using food as substitute for other needs can have several serious adverse effects. First, it can take your attention off the real problem and prevent you from taking steps to right the situation. Second, it may escalate until you`re eating patterns are out of control and you cause yourself permanent physical or emotional damage. Third it is very likely to interfere with your weight-loss efforts.
The following questions are designed to help make you aware of the connection between your emotions and your eating habits.
Do you find it difficult to stop eating, even when your stomach is full?
Do you find yourself binging?
Do you often overeat before a big event you are anxious about?
Do you eat when you are bored?
Does stress at home or at work send you to the refrigerator?
Do you often eat when you are not hungry?
Do you fantasize about food?
Do you spend much of your time focused on your weight problem?
Does eating make you feel guilty?
Do you overeat mostly when you are alone?
If you answer “yes” to more than a few of the above questions, you are probably an emotional eater. There is a good probability you eat in response to feelings of stress, loneliness, frustration, worry, or anger. Instead of dealing with your problems directly, you “stuff” them down with food. You may also spend an inordinate amount of time focused on food and weight. This may serve as another distraction, designed by your subconscious to take your attention away from what is really bothering you.
The following list of suggestions may help you begin to get familiar with your own patterns of emotional eating and put food back in its rightful place in your life. However if your problem is severe or persistent, consider getting professional help.
Look for patterns, such as frequent night eating during periods of stress or while your spouse is away on a business trip. Try to figure out and write down the most common emotional reasons for your eating.
Check your emotional state before you eat. Right before you take the first bite of a meal or snack, ask yourself how you feel. Rate your hunger on a scale from one to 10. Are you really hungry? If not, try to determine whether you are confusing emotion with hunger.
When you catch yourself about eat for emotional reasons, commit yourself to postpone eating for about 20 minutes. Use this time to try and find a better way to get your emotional needs met. Are you tired? If so, perhaps you can take a nap or set aside a few minutes for relaxation. Are you under a lot of stress? If so a short walk or a talk with a supportive friend might help. Are you bored? If so, perhaps you can amuse yourself in a different way, such as by writing a letter or reading a book.



